7th Sunday in Ordinary Time: February 22 & 23 2020

​It is said that in response to this Scriptural quote:  “an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth” – Mahatma Gandhi responded:  “that only makes the whole world blind.”
          This great promoter of non-violence was only saying that if we keep punishing those we deem cruel--  and worthy of our scorn and disdain --- then we’re no better off than they are. . .
          “But I say to you, offer no resistance to one who is evil.”
          See if any of this sounds familiar:
I will be NICE to him---- when he is nice to me.
I will TRUST her---- IF she proves she can be trusted.
I will GIVE money to him --- IF I know he won’t go off and waste it.
I will FORGIVE her---  only IF she promises to NEVER to do it again.
I’ll do WHAT HE WANTS--  IF he does what I want.
I’ll STOP CALLING HER NAMES --- when she stops calling me names.
I’ll LOVE him when he starts loving me.
 
Now -- I would like to say that NONE of that sounds familiar to me – but I would be lying!  Many of these statements sound a lot like me.
 Oh – I would never say them out loud – and most of the time I would deny even thinking them --- but if I am being totally honest – if I am taking a sincere look at my actions and motives --- then I have to say this list certainly reflects my thinking, and more times than I care to admit ---  reflects my actions.
I wish I could say that I NEVER act out of self-interest, never act a certain way based on how others treat me, or think of me – but I can’t.  And my gut tells me that not many of us CAN.
A couple of weeks ago, we dealt with the question of what was the worst thing that has ever happened to you in your life??? 
Let’s change that up a bit this week and ask  -- what is the worst thing you have ever done – or continue to do – to other people??
I think most of us would immediately start reflecting on some of the really big stuff – lying, cheating, stealing, slander, broken promises and broken vows ---- but how many of us would consider such things as:  I will be nice to him if he is nice to me.  I will forgive her only if she promises to NEVER do that again. . .
Most of us probably think all of those things belong in the category of “NO BIG DEAL.”
“But I say to you, offer no resistance to one who is evil.”
I often wonder if nearly all of us think the greatest harm we do to others – are through those big, dramatic sorts of things ---- and in avoiding the big things, we think we are basically living a pretty good life. . .
But what if it is not ONLY the big things – but also the little things that we continue to do over and over and over again – that also determines whether or not we are living a pretty good life???  Because little things – and the accumulated effect of those little things on us and those around us – do matter.
All those little things we do and say every day, every little minor decision we make to say something or to do something because it works for us –
with no thought about how those words or actions affect others – I think are a big part of what we call morality – but most times we don’t even think about them, much less feel sorry for them, much less confess them as sins.
Put simply – what would happen if each and every person only acted out of love & compassion & understanding & mercy & generosity??  Would not the world be a better place?  What if people never felt the need to “get back” at someone or punish someone or “use” someone for their own benefit?  Could we not change the world?
And maybe that’s too broad of a question – after all – we can’t control what other people say and do.  So instead maybe the question needs to be:  what would happen if I acted this way all the time – if I acted with compassion and understanding and mercy and generosity – in both big and small matters. . . we could, I think make a bigger difference in our little part of the world --  than we could ever imagine.
Jesus did not tell his disciples, which includes all of us:  to offer no resistance to evil – or to love our enemies – or to turn the other cheek – or to go the extra mile --- BECAUSE ANY OF THESE THINGS ARE EASY!!
 
 
No, Jesus knew making these choices are hard.   In fact, choosing a life of love – with no retribution – refusing to return evil for evil:  an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth --- cost Jesus his life.
And he asks us, his disciples, to choose the same path – Jesus asks us to follow his example, challenges us to make choices based – only --- on love.
What Jesus knew, and what we often fail to grasp – is the power in that way of living.  Love is not a weakness – but a strength – and it is the surest sign of God at work in us and through us.
          Jesus embraced a life of love – and he saved the world.  And if we choose the same – we can change the world – one person at a time.