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Day of the Dead or Dia de los Muertos is a series of commemorative days dedicated to those who have died. It is celebrated generally between Halloween, Oct. 31 through Nov. 2, and coincides with the Catholic holy days of All Saints (Nov. 1) and All Souls (Nov. 2). Families often come together over this period and preparations can be made during the entire year leading up to the Day of the Dead. This is a solemn occasion, with few actual festivities. Instead, people visit and repair graves of their dearly departed. It is common to light candles, leave offerings of prepared foods, often a favorite meal, and to pray and play music. Private altars are built as focal points for small, private religious observances. This year, St. Patrick School will be honoring this tradition with our own Dia de los Muertos altar. Beginning next week, students are invited to bring photographs of loved ones, friends, or pets who have passed away. Starting the week of October 28, students will be learning about this Mexican tradition and will visit the Dia de los Muertos altar with their class where they will display the photograph(s). The altar will be displayed throughout the week and at the end of the week, Father Matthew will pray a special blessing over our altar and for those we have lost.
Would you be willing to donate items to display on our altar? We are looking for some flowers, fruit like guava, limes, or bananas, religious candles, or other religious statues to display. We will return your items at the end of the week - just be sure to label them! 
If you have experience with creating a Dia De Los Muertos altar, we could use your help in designing ours! If you're willing to share some thoughts or ideas, please email me at: kmonaghan@stpatrickkc.com.

On Wednesday, November 13 at 5:30pm, St. Patrick School will host a parent information night where you will learn more about this program. Parents will have a chance to understand how the program works, gain access to a parent portal where you can find a lot of great information, and ask any questions you may have.All parents of middle school students are encouraged to attend. After the parent information night, you will have the chance to opt your child out of this program or to allow your child to participate in this program fully. Please make plans to attend!

During the week of October 7-9, we will be completing different activities to show our support to the FIRE Foundation. One of these activities is a "Be Kind" dress down day. We are asking ALL students to donate a plain t-shirt by October 1st. This shirt can be any color, but should not have any writing or design on it.

Don't feel like you have to go out and buy something new! If your chid has a plain t-shirt hanging in his/her closet (that you don't mind donating), just send it in! If you have a bunch of extra plain t-shirts around, send those in, too! Students will be decorating their "Be Kind" t-shirt and bringing it home over the weekend so that it can be worn on Monday, October 7th for our "Be Kind Dress Down Day".

If you are unable to provide a plain t-shirt for your child, just send me an email at kmonaghan@stpatrickkc.com. If you are willing to donate extra t-shirts, please send those in by October 1st as well! Thank you for helping us with this project!
Reminder: Bring in a plain t-shirt (any color, no writing or designs) by October 1st.

Sept. 11: Mid-Term; Church Night
Sept. 12: 8th Grade Parent Roundtable with Ms. Monaghan @ 5:00
Sept. 15: Class T-Shirt Online Store Closes
Sept. 18: Church Night
Sept. 20: Pizza Lunch Fundraiser for FIRE
Sept. 21: PTO Family Fun Event
Sept. 25: Meet me at the Pole; Church Night
Sept. 27: Spirit Day

This year, we are going to do something new at the end of every school mass.  Each Wednesday, we will invite someone to come up and share with us about his or her faith journey,  tell us something about why St. Patrick is important to them,  or tell us why the Catholic faith is important to them.  While you’re listening to these messages, I want you to think about YOUR message.  What would YOU say if someone asked you to talk about why St. Patrick is important to you?  What would YOU say if someone asked you why your faith is important to you?

Today, I want to share with you a little bit about my own faith journey.  I grew up in a family where church was everything.  My grandpa was a deacon and sang in the choir along with my grandma and her sisters.  I remember sitting in the pews being so proud...probably a little too prideful that my grandparents were such "important" people.  As I grew up, our lives revolved around the church.  We went to Sunday school on Sunday mornings, church at noon, then came back for church on Sunday night.  We had church on Wednesday evenings, too, and guess what...we never ever missed.  Many of our social events revolved around the church and looking back, some of my favorite memories took place at church.  Church was everything.  

So you might think….man, Ms. Monaghan must have been a really good kid.  Saintly even!  Unfortunately, that wasn’t necessarily the case.  Although I loved church and I loved God, I was kind of a mischievous kid who often found herself in a little trouble.  I remember one time my best friend’s mom said she didn’t want her daughter to sit next to me, because I was a bad influence.  She said, “Kaci, if you would just sit still, maybe you’d hear God talking to you.” 

That stuck with me.  I used to listen so hard, but I never heard God say anything.  For years, I thought there must be something wrong with me, because God didn’t say anything to me.  One time, I asked my mom about it. 
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• I said, “Mom, does God talk to you?” 
• She said, “Of course he does!” 
• I asked, “What does he sound like?” 
• She said, “Well, it’s different for everyone.” 
• Now, in my mind, I was thinking….what???? How is that even possible?  It sounded pretty hokey to me.  But my whole life, I kept waiting and listening for that voice.  

When I got a little older, and I started testing the boundaries of my parents rules, often times I would do something that I knew better than doing. Even though in the back of my head I knew it was a bad choice...I still did it.  Over the years, this little voice in the back of my head...you know it...the one that tells you not to do something because you know you’re going to get in trouble...that one.  It kept telling me to choose the right path...and sometimes I did.  

When I had kids, that voice was louder than ever.  It was there, reminding me how to take care of them, how to be a good mom, how to make sure they were safe and loved.  There were times I would be so overwhelmed with these 4 toddlers and that voice would remind me that everything was going to be okay.  One day I was talking to my mom about it. 

• I said, “There are some days when I think I’m just failing miserably at this whole mom thing.” 
• She said, “Well you’re not.” 
• I said, “I know, but I have to keep telling myself that.  I’m always thinking, :You’re a good mom, you’re doing a good job.” 
• And then my mom said the funniest thing.  “That’s God talking to you.”  

Woah...what???  That wasn’t God’s voice.  That was MY voice.  That was the little voice I’ve always had telling me NOT to make the bad choice I was getting ready to make.  Me reminding myself of something that I already knew, but probably wouldn't listen to anyway. Right??

“No,” I said, “I mean, I just sit an I think it in my head.  You’re a good mom, you’re a good mom….until I start believing it.”

She laughed and said, “And who do you think tells you that you’re a good mom over and over again in your head?”  

Then it hit me...was THAT the voice of God I’ve been trying to hear?  For all these years, every time I would know better than to do something, it was actually GOD talking to me???  When i would worry about something and in my head try to talk myself out of it...was that actually GOD telling me that everything was going to be okay?

It was then that I learned that the voice of God isn’t some magical booming loud voice.  He doesn’t shout in your ears, “Hey, you!  It’s me, God!”  No.  God’s voice is that voice inside of you that reminds you of right and wrong.  It’s the voice that warns you when there is danger ahead, the voice that reminds you that you can do anything you set your mind to.  It’s the voice who comforts you when you’re sad, who eases your fears when you’re afraid.  You know the one.  The one you've been thinking was just your own?  

I learned that lesson when I was forty something years old.  Today, I’m sharing that story with you, so that you don't have  to go your entire life wondering when God is going to start talking to you.   Today, I want you to know, that you don’t have to wait for God to talk to you, he already has.  No more waiting for you!  Now, you just have listen and believe!